The Intangibles of Success: Faith and Courage by Brad Loomis RKC and Natural Pro Bodybuilder Philippians 4:13 “I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.”
Faith is one of those intangibles that can be the kryptonite against the angst or fear that comes with trying to succeed. Simply having faith that everything will work out for the best is almost a “pack horse” or “mule” for all of the mind games that go along with success in this sport. Those negative emotions, they’re like a big bag of bricks that we carry around with us every minute of every day, just weighing us down. Why are we carrying around this bag? Can we really control the outcome of our fears? Can we control who shows up to our bodybuilding competitions? Can we control how many competitors there are in our class? The answer is no, we can’t, so take that bag of bricks and cast it on the back of the mule called faith. Put it on faith’s back and let it go. Now that is not to say that I am recommending you just sit back, relax, do nothing, and expect faith to take care of the rest. That would be nice, but at the same time it just would not be right. Can we really get something for nothing? No, our society is just not built that way and it shouldn’t be that way. Likewise, if you bust your butt in the gym, diet for months and months, practice your posing and prepare for your day, no one can take that away from you, but I digress. You must prepare for your day on stage by giving 100% of your heart, soul, ability, knowledge and effort. You must use the angst and your emotions (as I talked about in my last article) as signals to work on your weaknesses. Do this for your entire preparation and only then can you cast your remaining fear on faith’s back, knowing that everything is going to turn out for the best. You might win, you might not, but like I said, you cannot control who shows up and how many competitors there will be. Be prepared though and when the final days come, let faith take care of your fears and it will all work out. Once again, let me present my own experiences as an example of the kind of faith I am speaking of. In 2008 I was preparing for the INBF Capital City Naturals. I prepared for months and months and had a fantastic season. I had won my pro card with the INBA in June, and I was ready to win my WNBF Pro card at the Cap City. Although I did very well, I did not win my pro card at that show. That honor was bestowed on my fellow 3DMJ team mate Alberto Nunez, but again I digress. I don’t want to get into the details of my journey to the Washington State Naturals, but that story on how I became RKC and WNBF Pro in the same week makes for some interesting reading.
Brad Loomis (center) facing Luke Ehlis (far left) back in 2008 at the INBF Washington This brings me to another intangible quality one must possess if success is to be obtained: courage. I’m not talking about the kind of courage it takes to lay your life on the line for your country, but the kind of courage it takes to face adversity when it stares you in the face. As you can tell, the road to pro status in 2008 was daunting. It was a daunting task knowing full well that I would be facing Alberto at the Cap City for the overall, and possibly the class if we fell into the same weight class. It took a certain amount of courage to put out 100% effort as I prepared for that show and followed through by getting on stage with him. With all the uncertainty of doing the Washington show, I deliberated for at least 2 days before I decided to take on the task. It took a certain amount of courage on my part to man up, face that adversity, and overcome it. All the while having the faith to know it would all work out for the best. In the end, it did all work out as I accomplished my goal and won my pro card. However, there are literally dozens of examples of when it seems that things don’t work out, or at least they have not YET. You may be one who starts with your head, uses your mind and emotions as signals to succeed and possesses the qualities of faith and courage. You may have had tremendous success and have come close so many times to success, yet you still have fallen short by inches. This is when your resolve, faith and courage must be even stronger. As the old proverb says, “All things come in Gods time, not in ours.” Because there is yet another intangible quality among those that succeed and that is persistence. However that is a story for another time. |
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So there I sat, in my gym the week after I lost to Alberto for my coveted pro card.